Relationships

The Power of Forgiveness! It is for you, not for them!

The Power of Forgiveness! It is for you, not for them!

10 Steps of Forgiveness

 

Did you know that forgiveness is one of the most empowering things you can do? Forgiveness is a powerful tool that can help you break free from your past. Unforgiveness bleeds resentment, which is a toxic emotion that can lead to multiple other mental and physical problems. As long as you are alive, you will experience hurt from other people. The hurt, whether unintentional or intentional has a negative impact on both your mental and  physical health.

Most people have great difficulty in forgiveness because they do not understand what it is and what it is not. Forgiveness does not mean that you excuse or tolerate the offender’s behavior. Forgiveness is for you. It helps you grow from the situation and move on with your life.

Break Free From Your Past, Embrace Your Future

Break Free From Your Past, Embrace Your Future

We are all products of our past. No one grew up in a vacuum.  Most of our struggles today are rooted in our past. We fail to fulfill our purpose if we are held hostage by past negative experiences. Lack of freedom from our past is like walking backwards towards our destiny. Letting go of your past creates space for new experiences in your life.  Every child is born with dreams, but the cares and troubles of life can make us not to bring forth our dreams.

In our past is the source of our insecurities, fears, anxieties, and other unmet emotional needs.

Marriage Tip: Embrace Differences In your spouse

Marriage Tip: Embrace Differences In your spouse

Growing up, we were all accustomed to romantic fantasies for fairy tale weddings which concluded with “…and they lived happily ever after.” This leads to a myth that happy marriages are void of conflict or disagreements between spouses. According to renowned relationship expert John Gottman, happy marriages are based on a deep friendship between you and your spouse. This means respect for each other and enjoyment of each other’s company. In happy marriages, couples respect and appreciate each other's differences and there is little effort in trying to change each other. John Gottman asserts  that even happily married couples argue, but arguments don’t necessarily harm a marriage.